
by St. John’s Recovery Place
How Does Addiction Affect Relationships?
Okay, let us be blatantly honest about this: addiction to drugs or other substances has never positively impacted a relationship. There are many costs associated with substance misuse and addiction: one of the greatest costs is relationships with friends and family. There are no healthy, functioning relationships maneuvering successfully through the realms of addiction and abuse.
Addiction Affects All Kinds of Relationships
Every relationship that comes face to face with substance abuse and addiction is bound to suffer tremendously. Romantic relationships where at least one partner is dealing with addiction likely include a great deal more conflict than most. Trust issues, hurt feelings, and anxiety can be side effects of substance abuse in a relationship — for either partner or for both. These issues slowly wear away at relationships, gradually leading to the dissipation of happiness that eventually leads to relational failures, and not just the romantic kind.
Addiction does not just hurt the person who’s battling it; it affects all aspects of their life, including family, friends, and lovers. Relationships will suffer because of substance abuse and addiction. Siblings grow angry with each other, mothers cry, fathers wrestle with helplessness, friends grapple with anxiety and confusion — all of them wishing they knew how to make it better. However, these relationships and personal hurts, can be healed with time, therapy, and the proper treatment.
Family therapy is an integral part of many drug and alcohol rehabilitation programs. Often, it is friends and family working together who convince their loved one it is time to get help. The trick is knowing how to guide someone to rehab without force.
How Do I Support Someone with Addiction?
It is painful to watch someone you love and deeply care about slowly pulled deeper and deeper into addiction. Substance abuse is painful not only for the person going through addiction but also for the people around them. We see our loved ones hurting, and we wish desperately to help them, without the slightest idea on how best to provide aid.
Our first instinct is often to intervene and lecture our loved ones out of anger and/or the desire to protect them from endangering themselves and others. But in the case of substance abuse, it is often best to take a step back and look at the whole picture before trying to help.
Pause Before You Take Action
If your love for this person is making you feel urgent, take a deep breath and let it also make you thoughtful. Before you jump the gun and decide to confront your loved one, you must understand that addiction is a delicate and complex issue. No one wants to be an addict, and, certainly, no one plans to fall into addiction. But many do become addicted, and sadly, some of them have a tough time coming to terms with that fact.
Before you talk to anyone about what is going on, you should take a little time to think about the situation and circumstances you are facing. This does not mean don’t confide in a close, trusted friend, but be careful about whom you choose to share your concerns with. Struggling with an addiction can be embarrassing for your loved one to admit; fewer people knowing the intimate details about their personal life may make it easier for them to transition into recovery. If it’s something everyone knows about, they may feel like all eyes are on them, just waiting for them to screw up. You’ll also want to be careful about whom you speak with because, although most people mean well, they can give damaging and detrimental advice that can harm your chances of successfully encouraging your loved one to try rehab.
Thinking Through the Situation
It can be a lonely and complicated road to intervention, but you can do it. And if you really feel as though you need to speak to someone about what is going on but want to ensure your conversation is confidential, you can always reach out to a therapist to ease some of the weight on your shoulders. They may even be able to provide you with some solid advice and resources.
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Before you take the plunge into planning your intervention, take some time to consider these questions:
- When did you begin to recognize the signs of substance abuse?
- Have there been warning signs and significant stressors in your loved one’s life?
It may sound silly, but substance abuse shares many of the same side effects of stress and of other illnesses. It is essential to understand what is happening in your loved one’s life as best you can before you decide to take definitive action. This condition likely took time to develop; you’ll want to be sure you prepare yourself to speak with your family member or friend. You should not go into such a delicate conversation about change, addiction, and recovery like a bull in a china shop. Every person responds to criticism and concern differently, so you will want to keep that in mind as well before you stage an intervention.
Of course, there are many ways to do this. Since some of them may work well for you and your loved one (and others may not), be thoughtful and wise as you consider the possible ways to approach an intervention.
Planning an Intervention
First things first: know your audience! Yes, it is true that if your loved one is suffering from substance abuse and addiction, they are bound to be different from the person that you used to know. Thus, you will need to move forward with a working knowledge of who your loved one is now, as well as who they were before substance use took over their life. Once you are certain you are witnessing an addiction issue that must be addressed, reach out to other close friends and family of your loved one to see if they have noticed similar patterns and behaviors.
Get Support with Intervention Planning
Talking to a doctor or mental health provider about the issues you are seeing in your loved one and ask for their advice on your next steps. Begin to do some research on drug and alcohol rehabs in your area or further out. You want to be ready to recommend action steps.
Recovery treatment centers (RTCs) like St. John’s Recovery Place provide drug and alcohol rehab. Use our RTC directory to start looking at the options today!
How to Approach the Intervention
In the meantime, note specific moments when you notice your loved one is struggling with something or neglecting things they used to love. You can use this information to encourage them to seek something better, rather than to shame them. More often than not, people who are confronted in interventions are defensive. You don’t want to make them feel humiliated or accused or to give them the impression you are trying to coerce them into doing a specific thing.
You want to go into an intervention with as much knowledge as you can about substance abuse and rehab. You may not know exactly you’re your family member or friend is using, but you can become familiar with the basic structures of all addictions and substance use disorders to give your “arguments†sound foundational settings.
Planning an intervention can be overwhelming. There is a lot to consider, and you’ll need to talk to a lot of trustworthy advisors. Ensure you know as much about your loved one’s situation as you can. Have examples ready for them for you to bring up and look back on if they express interest, and most of all, move slow.
But What If It’s Urgent?
It’s true that in many substance abuse cases, time is of the essence. But you want your relationship with your loved one to be a pillar of support, something they can lean into as they begin to work through the process of accepting that they need help and eventually getting it in rehab. You do not want your loved one to shun your relationship because you spoke too harshly, made accusations and demands of them, or even issued ultimatums. Even though it is possible that tough love will be effective (which probably only is true in a small subset of the population) for getting them into rehab, what you want to be supportive, persistent, and loving, and seen as a reliable, listening ear. They will need you in their path forward.
This Isn’t a TV Intervention
You may need to hold a few intervention meetings with the same people where you all gently bring up the topic of substance abuse and recovery in the proximity of your friend. Be honest and upfront, but supportive and unforceful. Let them know you see them, that you want to help them, and that you are willing to work with them through the process no matter how long it takes. Slow and steady wins the race; a steady intervention system could be the key to getting your loved one into rehab on good, hopeful terms, rather than damaging or even losing your relationship in the fight about their need for recovery.
Be prepared to meet resistance and to highlight some of your causes for concern. You may not win them over in one session, but you can open the door for them to start becoming interested in recovery and considering what their lives may look like after they have beaten addiction.
It will not be easy. But it will be worth it.
How to Support a Loved One in Rehab
Good work! You did the research and took your time convincing your loved one they may need to try addiction rehab. You didn’t watch television shows on how to do it all, but offered your case with thorough thought, compassionate understanding, gentle concern, and strong, “I’m on your side†support. That is the way it should be done.
But your job is not over yet!
Now What?
Now that your loved one has enrolled in rehab, it is time for you to work even harder at this relationship. So, what can you do to support your loved one while they are in rehab? That can be a little tricky, but there are several ways in which you can show your support.
When it comes to inpatient rehabilitation, programs often severely limit the amount of outside exposure your loved one receives. Do not panic: This is a common practice aimed at helping addicts cull their desire to contact someone who can get them drugs or alcohol and encouraging them to build a new lifestyle for themselves. Even so, you may be able to show support to your loved one in recovery and continue working on healing your relationship by doing any or all of the following:
- Calling your loved one frequently while they are in rehab
- Engaging in family therapy sessions if you can
- Writing letters to your loved one
- Attending any in-person visit that you can at the rehab center
- Sending a small care package
Be sure you’re following the guidelines of the rehab center caring for your loved one — the last thing you want is to throw off the progress they’re making. If you have other ideas of how you can encourage and support your loved one, run them by the rehab. Keep in mind that during the inpatient healing process, your loved one must remain on campus grounds as much as possible in order to help them separate themselves from their old abuse habits. Addiction is scary and overwhelming, affecting everyone in its path. But recovery can also be challenging for the individual and their loved ones alike.
This Is a Temporary but Necessary Step
The recovery process may not be easy for either of you, but keep reminding yourself of how far you have already come! The effort you are putting into helping your loved one heal and working on repairing your relationships is well worth the rewards. And planning for inpatient and aftercare rehab for your loved one may keep you sane through the whole process.
After Rehab
If you’ll be continually supporting your loved one post-treatment, consider brainstorming a list of sober activities and fun ways to release stress that will help make life feel “normal again†in anticipation of discharge from rehab. Prepare for the best but have a contingency plan in place for the worst. There will be good days as well as bad days on the path to healing.
It is essential that you be ready to face whatever challenges may appear. Have a support network for yourself — to celebrate the triumphs, give you new ideas, and help you cope with the hard days. You’ll naturally want to have a long list of things you can do to help your loved one to readjust, but the best way to provide support post-rehab is simply to be there for your loved one. Listen. Show up for this relationship. Be their adventure buddy, even if your excursions are only to Walmart or a coffee shop. And always show understanding and kindness.
Rehab centers like St. John’s Recovery Place are tremendous allies in the fight to beat addiction. Be sure to reach out to therapists who specialize in addiction who can help you help your loved one and may be able to support them post-rehab.

When mental health conditions contribute to violent or dangerous behavior, affect the way a person treats their children, or increase the risk of recidivism, a court may order treatment. A court may also compel treatment if a person is deemed a risk to themselves or others. State laws governing court-mandated treatment vary, as do the programs a person might complete as part of court-ordered treatment.
Research on the value of court-ordered treatment is mixed. Mandated treatment offers access to mental health care that a person might not otherwise have. Some studies suggest that people pursuing court-ordered treatment may be less motivated in treatment or less likely to be honest with clinicians. Because treatment is mandatory, however, court-mandated treatments improve treatment completion rates.
The benefits and risks of court-ordered treatment depend on the type of treatment, the client’s commitment to treatment, the skill of the treating clinician, and numerous other factors.
The benefits and risks of court-ordered treatment depend on the type of treatment, the client’s commitment to treatment, the skill of the treating clinician, and numerous other factors.
What Is Mandated Treatment?
Mandated treatment is treatment ordered by a court. A person might have to undergo treatment for a set period of time, receive an evaluation from an approved mental health expert, pursue treatment at a specific facility, or agree to treatment as a condition of probation or parole. A person might also have to receive treatment before receiving visitation with or custody of their child.
Some examples of mandated treatment include:
Emergency mental health holds
When a person is a danger to themselves or to others, a therapist, doctor, or other clinician may pursue an emergency hold. These emergency holds require a person to seek evaluation at a mental health facility—usually a psychiatric hospital. In most cases, the hold lasts 72 hours. After the initial hold period, state laws vary. States generally have some form of judicial oversight, which means that a judge must approve the hold after a set period of time. A person can also fight a mental health hold, usually by filing an emergency petition with the assistance of a lawyer. A person cannot be indefinitely held against their will without a court order.
Treatment in lieu of incarceration
In some states, a person who is found not guilty by reason of mental disease or defect may be ordered to stay in a psychiatric hospital. In this scenario, the person cannot leave until they have either stayed for a period predetermined by the court or the facility has determined the person may be released.
Drug and mental health courts
Many states now offer diversion programs through drug and mental health courts. These programs require a person to complete treatment and other requirements. Those who finish the program can avoid jail or prison time. In many of these programs, jail time is used as a way to induce treatment compliance. For example, a drug court participant who doesn’t show up for a treatment session or who is accused of drinking might be forced to spend a weekend in jail before continuing the program.
Mental health treatment as a condition of some other benefit
Courts often make mental health treatment a precondition to receiving some other benefit. For example, a person being released early from prison via parole may have to seek treatment to avoid being re-incarcerated. Likewise, probation agreements that keep people out of prison sometimes require specific treatment. In these scenarios, a person typically meets with a probation or parole officer on a regular basis to show they are meeting court-ordered treatment requirements.
A person might also have to seek treatment to gain custody of their children. For example, if child protective services removes a child from a parent’s home because of the parent’s addiction, the parent may have to seek treatment and remain sober for a set period of time before regaining custody.
Legal principles of informed consent and informed refusal mean that a person cannot be forced into treatment without a court order. Some states offer a brief exception for 72 hour evaluation holds. In this scenario, however, a mental health professional must believe the person is a threat to themselves or others.
A therapist cannot force a client to stay in therapy or demand that a client undergo certain treatment. Even when a person receives court-mandated treatment, they retain basic rights such as the right to be free of physical abuse. People who have been ordered to undergo treatment may want to consult a lawyer. A lawyer can offer advice about your state’s laws as well as your specific rights.
History of Mandated Treatment for Mental Health
Mandated treatment allows clinicians, judicial systems, and treatment facilities significant control over a client’s life. Historically, mandated treatment was rife with abuse. People sent to mental health facilities might spend years in those facilities, receiving a wide range of unsupported and potentially traumatic treatments. Patients might be forced to undergo electroconvulsive therapy, be restrained for hours or days, or be subjected to violent abuse.
State licensing boards now regulate mental health facilities and prosecute abuse. Abuse can and does still happen. In 2009, a report detailed numerous abuses at Kings County Hospital Center’s psychiatric unit. New stories often feature tales of abuse in prison psychiatric facilities.
People undergoing mandated treatment should review all of their options, especially if they are permitted to choose among several therapists or facilities. When court-mandated treatment requires a person to seek treatment from a specific person or organization, advocates such as lawyers and family members can be key. Loved ones and paid advocates should educate themselves about the reputation of the treatment facility and remain in communication with the person undergoing treatment.
Common Reasons for Court-Ordered Therapy
Some of the most common reasons a court might order treatment include:
- The person has been convicted of a sex crime. Some states’ sex offender registries require participation in sex offender treatment.
- The person has lost custody of their child because of abuse, neglect, or addiction.
- The person is involved in a child custody dispute, and the court thinks one or both parents need either a psychiatric evaluation or mental health treatment.
- The person has a mental health condition or addiction and the court offers treatment as an alternative to jail or prison time.
- The person is incarcerated, and the parole board offers treatment as a condition of early release.
- The person is a threat to themselves or others. A person with intense suicidal ideation may be ordered to get a psychiatric evaluation or be held in a mental health facility for a set period of time. People with homicidal or violent thoughts may also undergo coerced treatment.
Does Court-Mandated Treatment Work?
Like any other treatment, the effectiveness of court-mandated treatment depends on several factors, including the skill of the clinician and the willingness of the client to actively engage in the treatment process. Court-mandated treatment can and does work.
Drug courts, for example, may lower recidivism. One study found that, over 2 years, drug court participation was correlated with a drop in recidivism from 40% to 12%.
Court-mandated treatment may also offer indirect mental health benefits. Researchers have repeatedly documented the harmful effects of incarceration on mental health. When court-mandated treatment helps a person avoid jail or prison time, it may prevent their mental health from deteriorating.
Mandated programs also have some shortcomings. When clients sign confidentiality waivers, they may be less likely to share openly with their providers. When a provider has the power to incarcerate a client by reporting noncompliance to the court, this can compromise the integrity of the therapeutic alliance.
Mandated treatment can feel scary and intimidating, especially if you have never sought mental health treatment before. Mental health workers offering court-mandated treatment are licensed professionals just like any other mental health worker. They have a duty to protect their clients and to offer compassionate care.
In many cases, a person compelled to undergo mental health treatment can still choose their own clinician. Find the right mental health professional near you.
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Drug abuse is a serious health concern. Overdose-related deaths in the United States have reached epidemic level. In fact, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimate an average of 130 people die from opioid overdose each day. This number doesn’t take into account deaths related to other drugs, which may increase this number.
Any drug use can become dangerous. Marijuana, now legal for medicinal and recreational use in many states, may help relieve pain, chemotherapy side effects, and symptoms of mental health concerns such as anxiety and posttraumatic stress. Research has also suggested marijuana may help treat addiction in some people. But despite these potential benefits, it can become addictive and could have health effects such as short-term memory impairment, impaired brain function, and respiratory health issues, among others.
Recreational use of illegal substances, even short-term use, can have serious health effects, including anxiety, paranoia, depression, suicidal thoughts, hallucinations, nausea, increased heart rate and blood pressure, and more. There’s also a risk of death due to overdose or complications. Long-term use of certain drugs could increase risk of violent behavior and may lead to legal trouble. Abusing drugs can also lead to drug dependency, or addiction.
Rehab can help people who’ve reached their absolute low work to overcome addiction, but it can also help people begin to break free of addiction before it significantly impacts their lives.
If you’re experiencing addiction, you’re not alone. According to statistics from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, more than 20 million Americans experienced a substance abuse disorder in 2014. Addiction can be difficult to overcome, no matter how hard a person tries. Professional support, in the form of inpatient or outpatient drug rehab, can benefit many people living with drug addiction.
Myths about drug rehab are plentiful. If you’re considering rehab for yourself or a loved one, making sure you have all the facts will help you make a more informed decision. Here, we present five common myths about drug rehab and the facts to counter them.
Drug Rehab Myths and Facts
Myth: Only wealthy people go to rehab.
Fact: Anyone can go to rehab.
It’s true that drug rehab can become expensive. Some people may not even consider inpatient rehab an option, believing it to be out of their budget. But the cost of drug rehab can depend on a number of factors, and there are rehab options for a range of budgets. See our article here for a more detailed explanation of rehab costs.
Some drug rehab centers offer low-cost or sliding-scale fees, based on your income. According to the 2012 National Survey of Substance Abuse, 62% of rehab facilities charge based on a sliding scale. Facilities may also offer payment programs or other types of financial assistance to people in need. Many drug rehab centers accept insurance, though not all insurance providers cover rehab.
When considering rehab, talk to your insurance provider and the rehab facility you’re interested in to get a better idea of the cost involved. Some centers may be able to work with you or refer you to another quality center that is more affordable. If the cost of inpatient rehab is a barrier, you might also consider outpatient drug rehab programs.
Myth: Rehab is for when you hit “rock bottom.â€
Fact: You can begin recovering from addiction at any time.
Many people go to rehab when no other treatment option has worked. Often, they’ve lived with addiction for many years. Rehab can help people who’ve reached their absolute low work to overcome addiction, but it can also help people begin to break free of addiction before it significantly impacts their lives. Research suggests early intervention helps improve treatment outcomes.
Addiction not only contributes to emotional and physical health concerns, it can also lead to homelessness, unemployment, debt, and breakup or divorce. Choosing to enter rehab when you first find yourself becoming dependent on substances can help you begin the recovery process before addiction can have more of an effect on your life.
Myth: Rehab is only for people who can’t quit on their own.
Fact: Anyone experiencing addiction can get help in rehab.
The idea that addiction only happens to weak or flawed people is widespread. It might seem logical: Many people experiment with drugs, but not everyone becomes addicted. But drug abuse alters brain chemistry and affects cognitive function, leading to cravings for the substance and eventually addiction. Certain factors, including genetics, can increase a person’s risk for addiction.
Although a person might choose to try drugs, they don’t choose to become addicted. Once addicted, many people can’t stop using drugs without professional help. Needing rehab isn’t a sign of weakness. Changes in the brain resulting from addiction can make it extremely challenging, if not impossible, to stop using drugs without the support of health care providers trained in addiction support.
Whether you’ve tried to stop using drugs and relapsed or are just beginning to realize you may have a problem with substance abuse, rehab can help you begin recovery.
Myth: Rehab will prevent a person from relapsing.
Fact: Relapse is common, but treatment can help reduce its impact.
Between 40 and 60% of people dealing with addiction will relapse, according to the National Institute on Drug Abuse. While rehab may help reduce your risk of relapse, completing a drug rehab program doesn’t guarantee you’ll never relapse.
But rehab still has benefit. Research shows rehab can help by helping you develop skills to resist cravings, making relapse less likely. If you do relapse, the length of the relapse may be shorter. People who participate in treatment programs such as rehab also tend to relapse fewer times than people who don’t. Rehab can also lead to improvements in your relationships with friends, family, and loved ones. Developing stronger bonds with people you care for can also decrease the likelihood of relapse.
Myth: Rehab doesn’t work if you force someone to go.
Fact: Rehab can work even if you don’t want treatment.
Some people choose to enter rehab on their own, but some people experiencing addiction may not see its effects on their life, or they may not believe they have a problem with substance abuse. They may only decide to enter rehab grudgingly, after a court order or intervention from loved ones.
Being issued an ultimatum or feeling otherwise “forced†into rehab could make some people resistant to treatment, at first. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, however, people who feel pressured to overcome addiction in order to maintain an important relationship or avoid criminal charges, for example, often do better in treatment, even though they didn’t choose to enter rehab on their own.
Substance abuse and addiction can have serious, lifelong consequences. But there is help. Drug rehab may seem like an extreme measure, but this is partially due to the many myths surrounding rehab treatment.
Numerous studies support the benefits of rehab for addiction recovery. Inpatient centers provide a safe place to begin the detox and recovery process at any stage of addiction. Some facilities are expensive, but it’s possible to find affordable centers that will work with you to find a treatment program that’s right for your needs and your budget.
Don’t let myths about drug rehab keep you from getting addiction recovery support. Compassionate care is available! Begin your search today at GoodTherapy. Recovery may be a lifelong journey, but you are not alone.
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Addiction is among the most common mental health diagnoses, with estimates of 12 month addiction prevalence ranging from 15% to 61%. A 2011 analysis estimates that nearly half of all Americans experience some symptoms of an addiction within a 12 month period. More than 70,200 Americans died from drug overdoses in 2017. Most of those deaths were due to opioids such as heroin and prescription painkillers.
Rehab centers are an immersive and potentially life-changing treatment option for people struggling with addiction. Clinicians and other staff considering working in rehab face a range of challenges, but also have the opportunity to change—and even save—lives. In rehab, people work steadily to get sober, repair broken relationships, and build lives of purpose and meaning.
A variety of mental health professionals, including therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers, may pursue careers in rehab. Some rehab facilities also employ lay peer counselors, addiction coaches, life coaches, or certified peer specialists. Addiction is a complex diagnosis, with many potential pathways to recovery, so there’s a potential role for virtually every mental health professional in rehab.
How Is Working in Rehab Different?
People in rehab face many of the same struggles as those in outpatient treatment—family difficulties, impulse control, anger management, self-esteem, body image issues, career frustrations, and more. They may have a range of diagnoses or no diagnosis at all.
What makes rehab different is that people in rehab have all reached a crisis point in their lives.
What makes rehab different is that people in rehab have all reached a crisis point in their lives. Many choose to go to rehab after a catastrophic loss, such as the end of a relationship or job loss. Rehab clients may also struggle with the physiological realities of withdrawal and cravings. This means that the average rehab client may:
- Struggle more with physical discomfort due to withdrawal
- Be adapting to a way of thinking and existing that is totally unfamiliar
- Not know what the future holds or feel much control over their fate
- Struggle with extreme emotions due to a recent crisis and the challenges of reality
- Need support distracting themselves from cravings
- Need psychoeducation about the science and psychology of withdrawal. Admonitions that the cravings will always be there are not helpful.
- Experience periods of suicidal ideation
- Not have the family support they need
- Be radically altering their life path. They may need help deciding what comes next, referral to community resources, and assistance identifying their unique skills and talents.
What Are the Challenges of Working in a Treatment Center?
Rehab, like private practice, presents numerous challenges—transference, separating oneself from a client’s needs, vicarious trauma, feelings of inadequacy, and the difficulties inherent in supporting people through life’s immense challenges.
Working in a rehab facility comes with additional challenges. People in rehab are, almost by definition, often not thinking clearly. That’s because withdrawal alters brain function and causes physical discomfort. They may be more impulsive, more frustrated, and feel more desperate to get better. Even clients who form strong relationships with their therapists may blame or lash out at them.
Some clients feel so overwhelmed by withdrawal that they want to give up. Helping a client see the value of treatment and see a path to a better life is one of the biggest challenges of working in rehab. Clinicians must develop a close and trusting relationship with each client. This relationship offers insight into the unique motivators that can help each client stick with treatment.
Helping a client see the value of treatment and see a path to a better life is one of the biggest challenges of working in rehab.
Depending upon where you work, you may encounter clients who are not voluntarily in treatment. They will need additional support to see the value in treatment and build a path to sober living.
Working in rehab may also involve supporting clients as they develop life skills, including managing serious challenges such as massive debt, job loss, divorce, child custody disputes, and other issues. Therapists should not advise clients about topics they know little about. Instead, they should offer emotional support and a sympathetic ear. In many cases, rehab facilities can refer clients to additional resources, such as attorneys and financial advisers, when they need them. Take advantage of these resources so you can better support your clients.
Are There Any Risks Involved With Working in a Rehab?
The main risks of working in a rehab center include:
- Vicarious trauma due to exposure to clients’ traumatic experiences
- Burnout and exhaustion
- Feelings of inadequacy and frustration when a clinician cannot help a client
- Uncertainty and anxiety when a client leaves treatment
There is also a very small risk of being harmed by clients. People in rehab are facing immense pressure. Some may be unstable or have poor impulse control. In rare cases, this may cause a client to:
- Verbally abuse or harass a therapist
- Stalk a therapist in treatment or after they leave treatment
- Attempt to harm a therapist’s reputation by filing licensing board complaints or leaving negative online reviews
- Assault or attempt to assault a therapist
Before taking a job at a rehab center, therapists should ask questions about:
- How the facility keeps workers safe. Is there security? An emergency panic button?
- Whether the facility screens out people with a history of violence or enacts other precautions when a person with a history of violence is admitted
- How the rehab facility supports the mental health of clinicians
- Work-life balance. Is there paid time off? An employee support program?
- Mentorship and support from more experienced clinicians
- How long the average employee stays with the company
- Whether there are opportunities for career advancement
Why Work in a Treatment Facility?
Addictions are a leading cause of death among healthy young people. Substance abuse destroys families, erodes communities, and undermines public health. Joining the fight against substance abuse can save lives and even reduce health care spending. People with addictions can be functional and happy members of their community. There’s no need for addiction to destroy a person’s life. Proper treatment can help a person restore their family, live up to their potential, and give back to their community.
Working at a drug rehab center can be a rewarding career that opens doors to other opportunities. Some clinicians eventually become administrators, while others publish research based on their work or go on to teach at colleges and universities. For early-career professionals, rehab offers access to clients with a wide variety of needs and challenges. This breadth and depth of experience can be difficult to obtain in private practice.
The work can also be emotionally demanding, and not all clients thrive or even survive. Mental health professionals should practice self-care, seek support from loved ones, and consider attending therapy to cope with the ups and downs of life as a rehab worker.
References:
- Overdose death rates. (2019). Retrieved from https://www.drugabuse.gov/related-topics/trends-statistics/overdose-death-rates
- Sussman, S., Lisha, N., & Griffiths, M. (2010, September 27). Prevalence of the addictions: A problem of the majority or the minority? Evaluation & the Health Professions, 34(1), 3-56. doi: 10.1177/0163278710380124