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Seasonal Depression
Winter Depression
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When the days grow shorter and the air turns colder, many people notice their energy dipping and their motivation fading. For some, this shift is mild, and they’re a little more tired and a little less social. For others, winter brings a heavy emotional weight that feels impossible to shake. If you’ve ever wondered why the darker months hit you harder than others, you’re not alone. Seasonal depression, often called Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) or winter depression, is both real and common.

The good news is that it is very treatable. With the right tools, support, and understanding, winter doesn’t have to leave you feeling depleted.

This article explores the science behind winter depression and offers research-backed, therapy-supported strategies to help you navigate the season with more ease and resilience.

Why Winter Impacts Mood: The Science Behind Seasonal Depression

While it’s tempting to blame winter blues on the cold or the lack of outdoor activities, the truth is often below the surface. Seasonal depression involves a complex interaction among biology, environment, and emotional well-being.

Shorter Days Disrupt Biological Rhythms

One of the most significant contributors to winter depression is reduced daylight exposure. Sunlight plays a crucial role in regulating our circadian rhythms, our internal clock that influences sleep, mood, hormones, and energy levels. When sunlight decreases:

What Happens to Your Body

  • Melatonin production increases, making you feel groggy or lethargic.
  • Cortisol rhythms shift, affecting energy and stress.
  • Sleep quality may decline or become irregular.
  • Your sense of motivation can drop, even if nothing in your life has changed.

This biochemical domino effect can explain why you may feel “off” every year around the same time.

Lower Serotonin Levels Affect Emotional Well-Being

Sunlight also helps regulate serotonin, a neurotransmitter closely tied to mood stability and emotional resilience. Less sunlight can lead to reduced serotonin activity, which has been associated with depression.

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If you notice you’re craving carbohydrates or sugar in the winter, that’s not your imagination: carbs temporarily boost serotonin production. That craving may be your brain’s attempt to replenish serotonin levels (in addition to the contented feeling comfort foods give us while we’re cozying up by the fire).

Environmental and Lifestyle Factors Add Up

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is often biological, but the environment in which we live can significantly impact our body and mind’s response to this time of year. The colder months often change how we live:

Increased Time Indoors

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Physical activity decreases

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Social interaction drops

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Outdoor hobbies pause

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We may feel pressure around the holidays

Individually, these changes may seem small. Together, they can compound the emotional effects of winter, making people more prone to depression.

If you often feel this seasonal shift, remember that it’s normal: Many people experience some degree of seasonal mood change. For some, it’s mild and manageable. For others, it significantly impacts daily functioning. No matter how you experience winter depression, it’s valid, and talking about it is an important step toward finding relief.

Recognizing the Signs of Winter Depression

Seasonal depression can look different from person to person, but common symptoms include:

Common Winter Depression Symptoms

  • Persistent low mood or sadness
  • Fatigue that doesn’t improve with rest
  • Loss of interest in activities you typically enjoy
  • Oversleeping or struggling to wake up
  • Increased cravings for carbohydrates
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Withdrawing from social connections
  • Feeling hopeless or unusually irritable

If these symptoms return around the same time each year and lift as spring approaches, they may be part of a seasonal pattern.

→Read More: Read Our 6 Tips to Tackle SAD

Science-Backed Ways to Cope With Winter Depression

The good news is that winter depression is highly treatable. Therapists trained in treating seasonal depression can provide tools that help you understand your triggers, change unhelpful patterns, and build supportive routines.

Below are practical, light-based, behavioral, and therapeutic strategies to help you feel more grounded and emotionally balanced this winter.

→Read More: Learn How to Talk to Your Therapist About Depression

Prioritize Sunlight Exposure

Exposure to natural light, even on cloudy days, can help regulate circadian rhythms and improve mood. Try the following:

Morning Walks

Take a short walk within an hour of waking

Window Workspace

Sit near a sunlit window during work

Open Blinds Early

Invite light into your space in the morning

Even small changes can have measurable benefits on your mental health.

Consider Light Therapy (With Professional Guidance)

Light therapy involves sitting near a specially designed light box for about 20–30 minutes each morning. Research has shown it can help reduce symptoms of seasonal depression by mimicking natural sunlight and influencing serotonin and melatonin regulation.

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While light therapy is widely used, it’s best to discuss it with a therapist or healthcare provider, especially if you have bipolar disorder or any condition affected by light exposure.

A smiling couple jogs on a snowy path in winter, demonstrating how outdoor exercise can aid in understanding winter depression.

Behavioral and Lifestyle Tools That Make a Difference

Trying light-based therapies is one option for addressing your winter depression. Reassessing your daily habits to improve your body-mind connection is another approach that can help more than you may realize.

Maintain a Consistent Sleep Routine

Winter depression often disrupts sleep, leading to oversleeping or inconsistent rest. A steady routine helps stabilize your mood and energy. Try these tips for better quality sleep:

Move Your Body in Ways That Feel Good

Exercise releases endorphins and supports serotonin production. You don’t need high-intensity workouts to benefit your mental well-being. Slow, simple movement counts:

Fitting in workouts in the winter might come with some challenges, like colder weather and less sunlight. However, getting creative with your movement routine can be key to supporting your emotional health this time of year.

→Read More: Learn How Movement Supports Mental Well-Being

Maintain Social Connections, Even if You’re Less Motivated

Isolation can intensify symptoms. Intentionally connecting with others can provide emotional support and reduce feelings of heaviness or loneliness. Consider these strategies for remaining social during the winter:

Even brief, meaningful interactions can lift your mood. And, if you can’t meet up in person, scheduling regular phone calls or FaceTime calls can still support your emotional wellness.

Therapeutic Approaches That Help Winter Feel More Manageable

Light-based and behavioral strategies may help with your SAD symptoms, but sometimes we need professional help, and that’s ok. It’s never a sign of weakness to seek support from a trained therapist, and there are a number of types of therapy that can help

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one of the most effective therapeutic treatments for seasonal depression. It focuses on identifying and shifting unhelpful thought patterns and building coping strategies that support resilience. A therapist may help you explore:

What CBT Can Help With

  • Negative thoughts that become more prominent in winter
  • Habits that keep you stuck in low energy
  • Activities that spark motivation and joy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) teaches skills for navigating difficult emotions and staying grounded in your values. Instead of resisting winter-related discomfort, ACT helps you move through it with compassion and clarity.

Talking to a Therapist About Seasonal Patterns

No matter what type of therapy you explore, talking to a licensed therapist can help you address your emotional needs and gain skills to address them. A therapist can help you:

Therapy provides a space where your experience is validated and where healing can begin.

→Read More: See Our Guide to Finding the Right Therapist

You’re Not Alone: Winter Doesn’t Have to Hold You Back

Winter depression may be common, but it’s far from untreatable. With light-based strategies, supportive routines, and the guidance of a trained therapist, you can navigate the season with greater ease, energy, and emotional steadiness. Remember: You deserve support, and your experience is valid. Your symptoms are treatable, and help is available.

Find Support That Understands

GoodTherapy’s directory makes it easy to find a therapist who understands seasonal depression and can help you develop a plan for managing it effectively and compassionately. If you’re ready to talk to someone who understands, exploring our directory can be the first step toward a brighter, more balanced winter.

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References:

Mayo Clinic: Seasonal Affective Disorder

Harvard Health Publishing: Shining a Light on Winter Depression

Healthline: What Are the Health Benefits of Sunlight

Mayo Clinic: Seasonal Affective Disorder treatment: Choosing a Light Box

Harvard Health Publishing: How Simply Moving Benefits Your Mental Health

Science Direct: The Differences Between Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: A Three-Level Meta Analysis

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Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
Winter blues
Holiday Depression

If you’ve found yourself dreading the 5 p.m. darkness and are struggling to feel motivated to do everyday life, you’re experiencing what many people wrestle with every winter. With this time of year comes the holiday season, which is supposed to be about connection, joy, and celebration. But for many, it feels more like a slog marked by exhaustion, emotional withdrawal, and a sense of emptiness.

Winter can be hard on your mental health, and the cultural pressure to be festive and grateful can make that struggle even heavier. When everyone around you seems to be thriving while you’re struggling emotionally, it’s easy to believe something is fundamentally wrong.

But the truth is more compassionate and nuanced: Your struggle isn’t a personal failing or a lack of willpower or gratitude.

It’s simply science. If you’re tired of struggling to navigate through the holiday season, this article offers a different path forward. Below, you’ll see that you’re not alone, and there are actionable strategies for protecting your mental health during the winter

→Read More: Depression Defined: What to Know

Winter Mental Health Challenges: SAD Is More Than Just a Bad Mood

When the winter months feel difficult, it helps to really understand what’s going on from a scientific and biological perspective. The official term for “winter blues” is seasonal affective disorder (SAD), a type of depression prompted by a change in seasons, mainly fall and winter, when we experience less daylight and sunshine.

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of Canadians experience SAD each year

It significantly affects as many as 5% of people in the United States and 2-3% of people in Canada each year. But even if you don’t have a true SAD diagnosis, winter can still significantly impact your emotional well-being.

Those affected by winter blues may become more withdrawn, don’t eat as well, avoid going outside, and experience a low, dysthymic mood that leaves them not feeling like themselves. While these symptoms can vary from person to person, you don’t need to hit a clinical threshold for your experience to be valid or worthy of attention. If the holidays or winter in general, consistently makes life feel harder, cloudier, or lonelier, that’s enough reason to seek support and implement strategies that help.

Why Winter Hits Different: The Science Behind SAD and The Winter Blues

Winter blues is science: your body is responding to real environmental changes in predictable, biological ways. Researchers believe it’s connected to changes in light exposure that disrupt our circadian rhythm and neurotransmitter activity, especially serotonin and melatonin, which help regulate mood and sleep.

How Light Affects Your Mood

Sunlight Exposure

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Vitamin D Production

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Increased Serotonin

Person in dark coat looks out frosted window at snow-covered tree with lights, reflecting on seasonal affective disorder.

Through our eyes and through our skin, when we have exposure to daylight, our bodies create vitamin D from that sunlight, and that increases serotonin, which helps us balance our good feelings. When we don’t have that exposure to sunlight, our vitamin D levels go down, and therefore our serotonin goes down.

Plus, during the holidays, many people experience complicated feelings like grief over lost loved ones, stress about family dynamics and social commitments, financial anxiety, or more. These psychological stressors compound the biological struggles that winter already creates.

This isn’t about your character, your resilience, or your ability to “think positive.” Your brain chemistry is literally being affected by environmental conditions beyond your control.

4 Ways to Protect Your Mental Health This Time of Year

When it comes to navigating SAD or winter blues, you don’t have to suck it up and get through it. Instead, try these behavioral strategies that can make this time of year not feel so heavy.

Create Structure When Your Brain Craves Hibernation

When your motivation disappears and everything feels effortful, structure becomes your friend. Prioritizing light exposure by getting outside or light machines, sticking to your daily routine, and maintaining social connections can make a meaningful difference when holiday chaos and winter cold feel overwhelming.

Consider the following:

The goal isn’t productivity for productivity’s sake. It’s preventing the downward spiral that happens when isolation, inactivity, and irregular routines feed depression.

Rethink Your Relationship With Light

Maximizing exposure to natural sunlight, especially for at least 20 minutes in the morning, is a simple and effective way to reduce SAD symptoms. But when it’s freezing outside, and you’re already feeling depleted, “just going outside” can feel like an impossible ask.

Instead, start smaller. Open your blinds as soon as you wake up. Move your workspace closer to a window. Take your coffee outside for five minutes, even if it’s cold. These aren’t cure-alls, but they’re practical steps that work with your reality rather than against it.

For some people, light therapy using a specialized light box can be helpful. Light therapy involves sitting near a specially designed light box for about 20-30 minutes each morning to help trick your body into responding as if there’s more daylight.

Stay Connected Even When You Want to Disappear

One of the biggest ironies of winter depression is that the time when you most need social support is when reaching out feels most difficult. Staying socially connected is an important way to manage symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder, even across physical distance.

You don’t need to force yourself into large gatherings or pretend to be cheerful when you’re not. Small, authentic connections are what matter. A text exchange with a friend, a brief phone call with a loved one, or committing to attend one social event per week, even for an hour, can help you stay connected with others. Making a plan to limit social time with those during the holidays who add stress, rather than calm, to your life is also a good way to ensure you build social connections without depleting your social battery.

→Read More: Discover More Benefits of Community

Move Your Body Any Way You Can

Regular exercise can boost serotonin levels and improve mood, working wonders for your mental health. But working in physical activity doesn’t have to mean grueling gym sessions or outdoor runs in the cold. Here are a few accessible movement ideas that you can work into your routine:

The goal is consistency and compassion for your body and mind, not punishment. Any movement that gets you out of your head and into your body can help interrupt rumination and boost mood-regulating chemicals.

When Self-Help Strategies Aren’t Enough: The Role of Therapy

Sometimes, no amount of light exposure, social connection, or routine-building is enough to get you through winter. That’s not a failure: you just may need more tailored support to help you navigate this season. The right therapist can provide exactly that.

What Therapy Offers That Self-Help Can’t

A therapist provides tips and techniques for addressing your mental needs, but they offer a space where your experience is heard without judgment, where patterns you can’t see on your own become visible, and where you can build personalized coping strategies tailored to your specific situation.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) has been shown to be particularly effective in treating Seasonal Affective Disorder. CBT helps you identify and challenge the thought patterns that keep you stuck (like “I’ll never feel better” or “something is wrong with me”) and replace them with more balanced, helpful perspectives.

Therapy is about reframing thoughts and understanding the full picture of what you’re dealing with. Depression often happens with other conditions, such as physical ones or other mood disorders, substance abuse, or anxiety. A trained therapist can help you understand how different factors in your life interact and affect your mental health.

→Read More: Want to Find the Right Therapist? See Our Step-by-Step Guide

How to Start the Therapy Conversation

At GoodTherapy, we know that making the step to ask for help can feel overwhelming. Knowing you need help is different than actually seeking it.

If this sounds like you, start by admitting this: “I need to talk about something I’ve been dealing with.” That’s it. You don’t need to have everything figured out or articulate your entire mental health history perfectly. A good therapist will help you find the words and understand what you’re experiencing. The sooner you reach out, the more tools you have to work with before symptoms intensify.

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Don’t just talk to anyone, though: finding the right therapist matters, too. At GoodTherapy, our therapist quiz helps you find professionals based on specific concerns, treatment approaches, insurance, location, and availability. You can look for therapists who specialize in depression, seasonal affective disorder, and related mental health challenges. Someone who understands your experience can create a space where you feel heard and supported.

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Building Your Winter Mental Health Survival Plan: Mental Health Checklist to Fight Depression

Reading about strategies is one thing, but actually implementing them when you’re in the thick of winter and holiday depression is another. That’s why we have an easy checklist you can follow to turn knowledge into action this winter:

This week:

  • Choose one small structural change (like a consistent wake time)
  • Reach out to one person you trust
  • Open your blinds first thing every morning
  • Notice without judgment how you’re actually feeling

This month:

  • If symptoms persist, research therapists who specialize in depression or SAD
  • Consider talking to your doctor about vitamin D levels
  • Schedule at least one social activity, even if it’s virtual
  • Experiment with one form of gentle movement

This season:

  • Build a support team, whether that’s a therapist, close friends, or both
  • Track what actually helps (not what you think “should” help)
  • Give yourself permission to scale back on obligations that drain you
  • Celebrate small victories, like getting outside or showing up for therapy

Remember: Mental health struggles don’t resolve in a single conversation or with one perfect coping strategy. This is about building sustainable support systems and being willing to learn what works for you.

Don’t Wait for Spring: Take Action Now

The most important shift you can make isn’t about suffering your way through another winter. It’s about exploring what you need, what strategies work, and recognizing that asking for help is not weak: it’s self-love.

With the right tools, support, and professional help, you can navigate these months with more resilience, self-compassion, and stability. The holidays can add pressure to feel happy and joyful, but don’t let social expectations guilt you. Your struggle is real, your experience matters, and help is available right now.

You Deserve More Than Survival

Ready to find support? GoodTherapy’s directory makes it easy to connect with therapists who understand seasonal mental health challenges and can help you build a personalized plan for coping. You deserve more than just survival: you deserve to feel like yourself again, even in the middle of winter.

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References:

Mayo Clinic: Seasonal Affective Disorder

Cleveland Clinic: Seasonal Depression (Seasonal Affective Disorder)

National Library of Medicine: When Routines Break: The Health Implications of Disrupted Life

National Library of Medicine: “Shedding Light on Light”: A Review on the Effects on Mental Health of Exposure to Optical Radiation

Across Boundaries: Seasonal Affective Disorder in Canada, with a Special Lens on Racial Dynamics

woman walking away in snowy forest Once we turn the clocks back in the fall and the hours of daylight get shorter, people might start to notice these concerning symptoms. See if any of this sounds like you starting in mid-November that gets better in the spring:  

You are not crazy, and you are not alone. There are biological reasons for why our moods get worse in the winter. And there are ways to lessen these symptoms.  

If you checked off several of these, you may be experiencing Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). About two thirds of individuals that are diagnosed with depression will also experience SAD during the winter months. Some people without symptoms throughout the rest of the year experience this type of depression when it is darker outside. Symptoms typically get better starting in March with more hours of daylight, but you don’t have to wait until then. 

Why Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Happens

There are several real reasons why SAD happens. One has to do with the overproduction of melatonin. This is a hormone that increases drowsiness in response to darkness. In the winter months, there are less daylight hours as well as decreased levels of sunlight because the sun is lower on the horizon. Sunlight helps our skin produce vitamin D which allows us to absorb calcium that aids bone growth. Low levels of vitamin D can make fatigue, muscle pain, ability to fight infection, and depression worsen. Additionally, people with SAD may have difficulty regulating serotonin, the feel-good neurotransmitter that affects our mood, appetite, and sleep. Studies have shown that sunlight keeps serotonin levels high by decreasing serotonin transporter (SERT) activity. Those who have SAD are found to have higher levels of SERT in the winter, which also can lead to depressive symptoms and poor mood regulation. Medications known as anti-depressants work by blocking SERT. They enhance the effects of serotonin, which is believed to reduce symptoms of depression. 

Less sunlight decreases serotonin activity which increases depression. The combination of these factors is a recipe for low mood, energy, and desire to take the very steps that make us feel better.  

If you or someone you love has a hard time in the winter, take action now. Being proactive can reduce the onset and impact that less sunlight has on us. Some people don’t notice SAD’s effects as much in December as we are distracted by the holiday season, setting up for a crash in January. The following tools may help to reduce and cope with the symptoms of SAD: 

The day with the least hours of daylight is the winter solstice which occurs on December 21st. Every day after we add a few more minutes of sunlight. Remembering that this is just a season and trying some of the suggestions above can help reduce feeling SAD. 

 

Cyndi Turner, LCSW, LSATP, MAC is the Co-Founder & CEO of Insight Into Action Therapy and Insight Recovery Centers. She is a harm reduction therapist who has been treating substance use disorders for three decades.  She designed the Alcohol Moderation Assessment which predicts who may be a successful candidate for alcohol moderation. Cyndi is the author of numerous articles and three books including The Clinician’s Guide to Alcohol Moderation: Alternative Methods and Management Techniques and Practicing Alcohol Moderation: A Comprehensive Workbook.  

 

 

 

GoodTherapy | Is Summer Anxiety Real?Summer is known to be a time of relaxation, vacations, and mood-lifting weather. But despite the leisurely pace of living, the season can also bring a sense of anxiety and stress, as routines become less defined, hot weather takes a physical toll and the logistics of trip planning add more to the to-do list.  

It’s normal to feel simultaneously excited and anxious during the summertime, and understanding why and how to mitigate the latter can help you enjoy the season to the fullest.  

Anxiety during the summer 

Heat 

The hallmark of summertime is a hot summer day. Basking in the sun and spending time outdoors is a surefire way to release endorphins and absorb vitamin D, but living in areas with particularly grueling heat — or enduring unusual heat waves — can have the opposite effect.  

High temperatures put us at risk of heat stroke and dehydration, leading to known physical health risks, and such weather depletes energy levels, leading to more frequent feelings of exhaustion and even cabin fever due to staying indoors more frequently.  

But there are even more sinister effects of prolonged heat exposure. According to a study published in JAMA Psychiatry, “ mental health-related emergency department visits found an 8% increase in mental health visits on the hottest days of summer compared with the coolest days. The increase ranged from 5% to 11% across different disorders.” Substance abuse, mood, and anxiety disorders were found also to be exacerbated by extreme heat.  

Fear of Missing Out 

This time of year always sees higher travel volumes, but social media has heightened the sense of FOMO, or fear of missing out, as you can get detailed, real-time access to your friends’ and relatives’ vacations.   

 Comparing our present, day-to-day lives to others’ curated social media content can lead to a sense of inadequacy, so be aware of thoughts that create feelings of jealousy or insecurity.  

Routine disruption 

Routines provide the necessary structure and stability to each of our lives. And though vacations can be a time for relaxation or adventurous exploration, regardless of the type of trip you’re embarking on, it is a departure from your current routine, which can cause anxiety and stress. 

While many of us need a break from our jobs, not working can surface negative feelings due to a perceived lack of productivity or advancement. During vacations, we are also more tempted to eat or drink less healthily, and maintaining a regular exercise schedule can be more difficult.  

Financial stress 

Flight, lodging, and transportation costs have been steadily increasing, and summertime is almost always synonymous with elevated prices due to higher demand. While a break from work may sound relaxing, the financial toll it can take may also increase stress levels. Before booking a trip, reflect on the type of experience you’d like to have — how you want to feel, and what activities you’d like to prioritize — so that you don’t feel a sense of buyer’s remorse due to reactive spending.  

Be aware of how social media FOMO can influence your habits as well. A 2023 survey from Credit Karma found that nearly 40% of Gen Z and almost 30% of millennials have been influenced to spend money they don’t have on travel expenses upon seeing their peers’ social media.  

Social gatherings  

Similar to the winter holidays, summertime often means family vacations, weddings, and social events with loved ones. Such gatherings can be joyful and fulfilling, but tense relations with certain peers or family members can also evoke feelings of animosity, resentment, or uneasiness.   

How to decrease summertime anxiety 

Deep breathing 

The benefits of mindful breathing and meditation are hard to overstate. Data, including National Institutes of Health studies, have repeatedly shown that consistent mindfulness breathing and therapy programs significantly reduce depression and anxiety.   

Such practices can help you maintain focus and identify the sources of anxiety so you can work toward confronting some of the culprits.  

Establish a daily routine 

Whether you are hosting visitors or taking a vacation, create a plan to mitigate as much routine disruption as possible. Even if you can’t dedicate as much time to your typical daily tasks, intentionally schedule in time to do what makes you feel grounded each day, whether that is journaling, meditating, reading, or going for a walk. Conversely, having an all-or-nothing approach while on vacation will only make you feel more derailed during and after your vacation and likely increase anxiety levels upon the return to your regular schedule.   

Exercise and eat healthy 

Maintaining your diet and exercise routine will undoubtedly change when you’re on vacation or hosting guests, but don’t let it falter too much. Even if you can’t complete your full workout routine or eat your regular meals, schedule some exercise time, and offer to buy groceries or plan meals that more closely adhere to your diet.  

Budget 

Excessive, reactive spending is never easier than when you’re on vacation, but it’s often not always followed by positive emotions. To avoid financial guilt, create a realistic budget — daily or weekly — that is easy to track. This will crystallize what you feel most comfortable spending more money on and what costs you’d like to keep to a minimum.   

Anxiety can occur at any time of the year, but it’s important to be aware of how this season may exacerbate underlying mental health conditions. Be sure to take care of your physical and mental well-being, and seek a therapist to discuss and manage anxiety-related symptoms. 

 

GoodTherapy | How to Talk to a Therapist about DepressionBy the nature of how depression manifests itself, it’s often hard for those in its grip to seek any support, let alone therapy. 

And while it may seem like everyone else isn’t struggling, there’s a good chance that’s not the case. In fact, major depression is one of the common mental illnesses, affecting about 8% of all American adults every year.  

But it doesn’t have to remain that way. Though there are some tell-tale signs of depression, other indicators aren’t quite as obvious, and a mental health professional can offer an objective analysis of your situation, as well as a safe place to discuss some of the underlying factors contributing to one’s symptoms.  

If you think you may be struggling with depression, learn about the benefits of seeking therapy and how to discuss depression with a trusted professional.  

Differences between depression and anxiety 

Individuals experiencing depression may also have anxiety, and it can be difficult to decipher where one ends and the other begins. After all, it’s normal to feel sad or anxious throughout our lives, but depression and anxiety should be taken more seriously when it begins to interfere with daily functioning. A declining job performance resulting from depression, or retreating from activities with friends due to social anxiety is a sign to seek professional help. Because each condition requires different approaches, it’s important to understand the differences between each. 

Anxiety 

Anxiety is characterized by a jittery, apprehensive feeling, usually about something that could happen in either the near or long term. Virtually everyone experiences feelings of anxiety at some point in their lives, but it’s typically considered a disorder when such thought patterns are ongoing in nature. Those with such conditions often feel uneasy, with “what-if” thoughts that are more future-focused particularly prevalent. 

Depression 

Depression, on the other hand, typically carries a sensation of consistent exhaustion or fatigue, physically and/or emotionally. Many describe it as feeling like there is something weighing them down, as if performing the simplest of tasks – making one’s bed, running errands – feels, at times, extraordinarily difficult. While anxiety is typically associated with apprehension about current or future events, those with depression typically report feelings of hopelessness. 

Types of depression 

Stressful and life-altering situations can cause us to feel depressed throughout our lives. Grief from the loss of a loved one can trigger depressive symptoms, such as a loss of energy or intense feelings of sadness or despair. These grief-related emotions may remain for a long time, but many people are able to return to a more functional psychological state over several months, perhaps within a year in more extreme cases, in which they’re able to perform daily responsibilities, experience positive emotions, and maintain healthy relationships. 

But clinical depression occurs when symptoms occur over an extended period of time and interfere with daily functioning. There are various forms of depression, some of which arise out of particular circumstances: 

Seasonal affective disorder:

SAD tends to arise as days get shorter during the wintertime, in addition to, in many cases, colder weather. The combination of lower temperatures and less light can alter our moods and even routines.   

Perinatal:

This type of depression is seen during pregnancy or in the first year after giving birth, commonly known as postpartum depression. An abrupt life change, less sleep, and hormonal changes lead to emotional and psychological blues for many parents, but prolonged feelings of sadness or despair may point to something deeper.  

Bipolar disorder:

Manic episodes, characterized by high energy and, in many cases, delusions of grandeur, are part of bipolar disorder. But what tends to follow are periods of depression, leading to low energy, isolation, and less overall activity. Therapy is important for those with the condition, but it is also usually paired with medication treatment.  

Persistent depressive disorder:

Major depression is noted for its extreme symptoms, particularly ongoing changes in appetite, lack of social activity leading to self-isolation, and other symptoms that get in the way of daily functioning, like holding down a job. By contrast, however, persistent depressive disorder is characterized by slightly less intense symptoms that remain for around two years or more.  

Benefits of discussing depression with your therapist 

Maintaining a supportive network of loved ones, including friends and family, is a powerful way to stave off the most intense symptoms of depression. There are other ways to lessen the intensity of symptoms, such as staying physically active, eating healthy, and adhering to a routine most days.  

But therapists are experienced and objective professionals that can help contextualize feelings and symptoms. They help navigate underlying causes that are exacerbating one’s symptoms and help find ways to change, accept or adapt to external circumstances.   

Therapists can also identify thought patterns that are particularly damaging, or conversely, beneficial. They are well-equipped to help clients develop skills that combat insidious and counterproductive thoughts and behaviors, especially those that exacerbate depression. They can also help you set realistic treatment goals – such as a daily walk or social connection – and monitor your progress.  

While continuing to seek support for your social network is key, just like with a physical illness, it’s also important to talk to a trained professional who understands how to navigate and help treat such mental health conditions.  

How to talk to your therapist about depression 

Mental health professionals will often do an assessment as you begin treatment to understand why you are seeking therapy, what approaches may or may not work, and if and what symptoms are contributing to your decision to seek counseling. Think of it like a questionnaire that involves a range of inquiries into your personal life, background, medical history, and more. The point of such evaluations is not to interrogate you but to make sure your sessions are as impactful and tailored to your needs as possible.  

Remember, everything you say is confidential, so as difficult as it may be, it’s important to be honest about your emotional state.  

Types of therapy that may benefit someone with depression 

Cognitive behavioral therapy  

CBT teaches individuals to identify and track their thoughts and behavior patterns, particularly those that contribute to depression. These thought patterns are often decades old, meaning they seem so second nature and automatic that we don’t even recognize we have the power to change.  But CBT can help reverse unhelpful thoughts, which in turn, leads to more desirable behaviors.  

Interpersonal therapy  

Therapists employing this type of therapy help individuals improve relationships with others, in turn promoting their own mental health. During IPT, clients can deepen important connections, healthily resolve conflict, and set boundaries necessary for personal growth and fulfillment. This can prevent isolation and spur social engagement, a key barrier to long-term depression.  

Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy 

This therapeutic approach takes the benefits of CBT and combines it with mindfulness techniques, such as meditation. These types of practices help anchor us in the present moment, which helps combat feelings of anxiety or depression, often stemming from thoughts about the past or future.  

Seeking Help  

While depression may feel insurmountable, it is a very treatable mental health condition. With the right plan and professionals to guide you, studies have shown that anywhere from 80 – 90% of patients respond favorably to treatment. Research has also shown that psychological treatments like talk therapy can have comparable effects on depressive symptoms as antidepressants and even more powerful impacts than medication long term.  

Make sure you are using an online directory that helps filter therapists and mental health professionals with important characteristics or experience, as well as those who can take your insurance. Doing so through platforms like GoodTherapy can jumpstart your therapy journey to make it as easy as possible to start feeling more like yourself.  

Everyone loves the holiday season, and it’s the time of the year when we get to spend time with friends, and family, and indulge in a variety of different festive activities. But once the festivities are over, and it’s time to return to our regular routine, a lot of people begin to feel sad and disconnected. 

This is often referred to as the post-holiday blues. If you’re struggling with feelings of sadness, loneliness, or even depression, you’re not alone. This article will explore why people experience this type of depression, how to cope with it, and when to seek a professional. 

Why Do People Experience Post-Holiday Blues? 

Understanding the post-holiday blues is the first step in coping with them. The first Monday of the New Year marks the abrupt end to the excitement of festivities and the return to our daily routine without the holiday cheer.  

And with shorter, darker days and colder weather, many people can experience feelings of isolation and loneliness. 

The holiday season also often entails more socializing, more food, and more alcohol than usual. Not to mention the significant amount of gift-giving, all of which can lead to financial strain and feelings of overwhelm.  

People can often experience a sense of guilt for indulging too much during the holiday season. These feelings can often lead to the pressure of quickly getting back on track to avoid more significant concerns from creeping up. 

How to Ease the Feeling of Post-Holiday Blues? 

The post-holiday blues can be a tough way to start the new year. Fortunately, there are a number of tips to help beat the post-holiday blues. 

One of the most helpful tips to ease the feeling of post-holiday blues is to set some goals for yourself. Goal setting is an essential tool that can help you feel motivated and inspired by the things you want to achieve.  

These goals don’t have to be massive; they could be as simple as reading more books, starting a new hobby, or doing some home organization. Accomplishing small actions will boost your sense of achievement and uplift your mood.  

It’s also essential to stay in touch with friends and family, especially those who are positive and uplifting. Communication with loved ones can help individuals develop a sense of belonging and purpose, and thus alleviate feelings of isolation. 

Doing things that make you happy can also assist in elevating your mood. This can be going for a walk, booking a staycation, practicing good self-care, or trying a new restaurant.  

It doesn’t have to be expensive – finding pleasure in the little things is vital. Go for regular walks and exercise, which release endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals. 

When to Seek Help for the Post-Holiday Blues 

It’s important to note that the holiday season can often exacerbate or bring up pre-existing mental health conditions. And that’s completely normal. However, if you find yourself struggling with post-holiday blues that seem to linger and impact your daily life, know that you are not alone.  

Experiencing depression, particularly seasonal affective disorder (SAD), this time of year is common. But it doesn’t have to define your quality of life. Seeking the help of a therapist can be a helpful step forward in managing your symptoms and regaining control over your emotional well-being.  

A therapist can provide you with tools and strategies to cope with your depression and support you in developing a personalized treatment plan that meets your unique needs. With the right guidance and support, it is possible to overcome post-holiday blues and restore a sense of joy and fulfillment to your life. 

GoodTherapy is here to help. Our directory can help you find the right therapist for you, right in your local area.   

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